Music… The gateway to addiction

My children are the most amazing tiny humans I have ever met in my entire life. I am often shocked and/or tickled by the things that they say. For example: My ex-husband is having another child. My youngest asked me if the baby would be living with dad, dad’s gf or me!! We chatted about that >>>>here<<<<

Tonight we stepped out to grab a few things from the store. We completed this mission and I was only buttered up once for a “new thing”. I gave in because it was the board game “Life”.

On our way home, my radio was on very low, the youngest heard that the song was Trap Queen and asked if I could turn it up. I told him no and he was all sad. I then explained to him what “the trap” was and what the song was generally about(to the bet of my knowledge). He freaked out a little and was like “Nooooo it’s inappropriate”. Then my middle guy asked me to turn it up… The baby was like “No, twin, you can’t listen to that because then you will get addicted to drugs”    :/




Seeing ghosts.

I have been seeing ghosts! Not spooky see through ghosts, but that…. “hey, wtf” moment when you know someone is not around. This ghost has appeared everywhere! All weekend long , wherever I went. Even today.

Oh universe, what are you trying to tell me?


As predicted… today is no fun

Yesterday was a long one. I worked throughout most of the day and went out to eat with my friend who’s more like a sister.

We laughed, talked, and caught up on a lot of things and it was nice to finally get out of hermit status even though I suffered a bit of a scolding for some decisions made.

Afterwards I went out again and didn’t get home until very very late. It was fun being out so late but what was not fun was waking up today!

I wanted to get up early and knock out my cases and bring my kid to his purple belt test. This did not happen! I didn’t wake up until 12:15 and so it was go go go on getting ready and picking him up for his 1:30 test. We made it here with just 5 minutes to spare. That was just time enough for me to park the car and buy him a Gatorade from the market in the same plaza.

I figured I would knock out the cases while he tested. This did not happen. I decided to go to the 2 attempt BOA field contact first. Bad move. I had been there earlier in the week and it wasn’t super imperative that I went this afternoon. When I checked my GPS times, I noticed I wouldn’t be able to go to the one that was required and be back in time to see watch the games and see him receive his belt. I decided to go home and upload yesterday’s work instead.

I got most of the work uploaded Abe was in the process of entering data for a vacant chase default when I noticed the clock read 3:06. Well Damn! The test had been going on for about an hour and a half and I needed to get out of the door NOW! I drove way too fast to get here, leaving unfinished work open on the laptop. They opened the door to the place just long enough for me to say hi to my kid and then we parents were locked out again and blinds closed!

I’m not moving from this spot. Happy Saturday people…

Road trip!!!

As if I’m not in the car enough!! This will prove to be a long night… not looking forward to waking up early tomorrow!! Happy Saturday people

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Who’s this? How did you get my number?

OMG soooo…. Looks like my number and other personal information has been given out to random people. I got calls at 2am ish. I know where the problem was created and have subsequently removed the information. I don’t know exactly how much information people have but I hope no one comes to my house. So If I’m murdered find the order and you’ll find the source.

Now to make this page stay on top just in case the police need to find my killer. #LifeWithASociopath