Taking the good with the great and the minor gripes.

I refuse to let the little annoyances into my world today. I almost let the fact that people continually say, “i’ll call you back” and fail to do so get to me. I thought about it and this IS the norm for them, and thus should not affect my day in the least.

Let me tell you about my day… I happened to get almost everything squared away in the home front which is to say, I made a huge dent in readying myself for the eventual release of bane<— 😉

I got to have a little “me time” in the morning.

I managed to save $210 on North Face winter coats for three boys (My ex husband works at Dick’s and we used his discount)

My boys had a great time at their schools’ Halloween dance. They had sad faces  when I picked them up but that’s because twin A lost his grim reaper mask and twin B let someone use his light saber  and he eventually found it broken in the trash.

We just finished playing “the last word” an awesome board game  that is way too advanced for them but I didn’t let them know and they did excellent.

And now, I’m enjoying a glass of wine and talking to you, they are enjoying some YouTube videos about minecraft and all is well an right with the world.

Now to some interesting stuff… I like to meditate but find it hard to quiet my mind fully. I sometimes listen to some guided stuff I find around YouTube. At some point last week or maybe even early this week, I listened to some “connect with you twin flame” guided thing and let it flow right out of my mind. I can remember, at some point, visualizing a gentleman in camouflage… He looks strong in my mind and I felt safe and secure, I passed it off as a dream. He had red hair full facial and I thought I was just dreaming about the doctor from Grey’s Anatomy. I went to CVS before picking the kids up from the dance, just to grab a card for the birthday boy tomorrow, and low and behold a freaking guy in full camo and cold weather under garb (I could see the tight black shirt under the camo top) was walking straight into CVS!!! I went inside and he was walking out. I picked a card and checked out. I went to walk to my car and there he freaking stood! right at my bumper.. The twin flame I envisioned. I couldn’t even breath. I just got in my car and left…..

Let’s just say, I will be entertaining more guided meditations….

It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood!!! Won’t you be my date tonight?

The controversy about fantasy football has had me glued to every game I can manage to watch. It got so much publicity, even political last night! I had to join Fanduel. Last week I lost my butt because I had no clue how to do it. I picked all Patriots guys(as many as the site would let) subbed in others because I had to and realized that everyone else had a variety of players from various games and got way more points. This week I’m so far in the green.

Gronk just ran like 47 yards for a touchdown and you know I have him in at least one contest!

So what is my plan for us tonight on this beautiful date night you ask?

Wine yes!! I think I grabbed a bottle of Bogel Cab. I was in a rush to come home for the game. and Patriots vs Miami.

Hang with me… I think I make the perfect date 😉

What is the purpose of this day?

I am starting to think that this day really doesn’t have much of a purpose. It was simply stuck in the middle of the week to make things odd<— 🙂

Monday: On this day people dread going to work after a great or even not so great weekend. It, for me, is a new beginning. The week starts anew, payroll starts anew. Things seem to be refreshing and optimistic.

Tuesday: Now you’ve gotten your week flowing. You’ve made plans on Monday and will undoubtedly finish them on Tuesday. Most appointments are scheduled this day and they are set for a Thursday, for me at least.

Thursday: fulfilling appointment requirements on this day is a must. I tend to work the most on this day, sometimes all day. Now your plans for the weekend are scheduled and thought about. I track spending and incomes on this day. I balance budgets and make plans for finances on Thursdays mostly.

Friday: This day is spent finishing everything that you didn’t get done on Thursday. It’s usually a short work day but a longer family planning or personal planning day. This is the official start of the weekend.

Saturday: This day is spent doing all of the leisure things that you planned on doing since Monday. This is party day for most, lazy day for some and for me it depends on whether I have the kids or the ex has them.

Sunday: This day has always been the day of rest and the day of cleaning. This is also the day of large family sit-down meals. This day I clean, cook and rest! This is the day that you start gearing your mind towards working again.

So please explain to me why Wednesday exists. It seems to be the longest day of the week, yeah I know it’s made of the same 24hrs but it really feels like it’s not needed. Everything is on repeat and I think we can do without it…

What are your thoughts about Wednesdays?

CNN No! please stop trying to sway the public.

CNN is trying so hard to blame that girl for this incident!!! “This may make people ask some different questions?”

They slowed the video down and showed the girl “strike” the officer. What I see is her grasping for leverage because she was mid fall with a desk attached to her.

Please CNN stop trying to make this seem as though it is not completely an excessive use of force.


It frustrates me when I see the media being so completely biased in a situation when they should understand that their job is simply to show the facts of a situation and report on it. Not to skew it in a direction that would sway your average viewer.

They also mentioned that he may have used such force to throw her across the room because she could have kicked him.

What do you think of this video and the use of force shown? Justified or No?

11 Days

11 days

In just 11 short days I should have had all things completed.

I should have a plan of action.

I should be in a new place.

In Just 11 days I will have to mentally prepare for drama while hoping for peace,

I think to myself, am I making a much bigger deal about this than I should? Probably. But I’ve been taught to prepare for the worst. Previously, I had the outlook of “people are inherently good” but have since lost sight of that.

11 It has been dated. 11/6

To Do List:

  • Get bins for his stuff
  • Pack and move his stuff from my enclosed porch to the common enclosed porch.
  • post notice to keep doors locked
  • change all passwords (before he went in but after he made me leave my home, he grabbed my computer and posted a ton of horrible things all over every social media platform I use, and changed all of my passwords and linked all of my accounts to his email thus preventing me from accessing them. It took me a while but I managed to hack back into my stuff and correct all the issues)
  • Hope that maybe he will not want to be a D***, maybe he will get out and move on to wherever….

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Motivational Monday – http://wp.me/p4H5eM-yP

Every person we meet is a reflection of our souls

That one statement scares the hell out of me. If this is true, it makes me question every part of my soul. See, I have met some truly questionable people… are they drawn to me and me to them due to some rare issues I’m facing inwardly?

Food for thought indeed!

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Staying true to yourself or living in your truth is one of the most difficult things to do. We are often guided by the perceptions of others and what “they”would think of our choices…

Stay true to you!