Empathy or torture?

I found it! I found it! the most detailed way of expressing what I live through on a daily basis. I ran across this article on Facebook, and through The mind Unleashed. Now I don’t know if I would technically classify myself as “empathic” but I would certainly say I relate to a lot of the things that I read in the article.

Here are 30 of the most common traits: From The Mind Unleashed

1. Knowing: Empaths just know stuff, without being told. It’s a knowing that goes way beyond intuition or gut feelings, even though that is how many would describe the knowing. The more attuned they are the stronger this gift becomes.

-I think that this is the hardest part

2. Being in public places can be overwhelming: Places like shopping malls, supermarkets or stadiums where there are lots of people around can fill the empath with turbulently vexed emotions that are coming from others.

-YES! can not stand being in large groups.

3. Feeling others emotions and taking them on as your own: This is a huge one for empaths. To some they will feel emotions off those near by and with others they will feel emotions from those a vast distance away, or both. The more adept empath will know if someone is having bad thoughts about them, even from great distance.

-This is what gets me in a lot of trouble! It’s mostly bad feelings and they drive me nuts and I seem a little nuts, BUT the moment that energy is away from me I feel like I was never even mad to begin with.

4. Watching violence, cruelty or tragedy on the TV is unbearable: The more attuned an empath becomes the worse it is and may make it so they eventually have to stop watching TV and reading newspapers altogether.

5. You know when someone is not being honest: If a friend or a loved one is telling you lies you know it (although many empaths try not to focus on this because knowing a loved one is lying can be painful). Or if someone is saying one thing but feeling/thinking another, you know.

-This one hits far to close to home. I usually try to push past the thought because I mean how the heck can you really prove someone is actively lying to you? They are obviously going to deny it! UNLESS you have hard-core, concrete evidence which is sometimes the case with me, but then I have to weigh the pros and cons. It doesn’t feel good to look into someones eyes and know they are actually lying to you.

6. Picking up physical symptoms off another: An empath will almost always develop the ailments off another (colds, eye infections, body aches and pains) especially those they’re closest to, somewhat like sympathy pains.

-I’m not to sure about this one, how could one really know?

7. Digestive disorders and lower back problems: The solar plexus chakra is based in the centre of the abdomen and it’s known as the seat of emotions. This is where empaths feel the incoming emotion of another, which can weaken the area and eventually lead to anything from stomach ulcers to IBS (too many other conditions to list here). Lower back problems can develop from being ungrounded (amongst other things) and one, who has no knowledge of them being an empath, will almost always be ungrounded.

-again, how could one really tell.

8. Always looking out for the underdog: Anyone whose suffering, in emotional pain or being bullied draws an empath’s attention and compassion.

-This is definitely my style.

9. Others will want to offload their problems on you, even strangers: An empath can become a dumping ground for everyone else’s issues and problems, which, if they’re not careful can end up as their own.

-If you only knew! I couldn’t tell you how many things people tell me. I want to say, “buddy, whats’s your name?” but people need to unload, and I can shake most of it off.

10. Constant fatigue: Empaths often get drained of energy, either from energy vampires or just taking on too much from others, which even sleep will not cure. Many get diagnosed with ME.


11. Addictive personality: Alcohol, drugs, sex, are to name but a few addictions that empaths turn to, to block out the emotions of others. It is a form of self protection in order to hide from someone or something.

-Scratch tickets and casinos lmao.. sad but true.

12. Drawn to healing, holistic therapies and all things metaphysical: Although many empaths would love to heal others they can end up turning away from being healers (even though they have a natural ability for it), after they’ve studied and qualified, because they take on too much from the one they are trying to heal. Especially if they are unaware of their empathy. Anything of a supernatural nature is of interest to empaths and they don’t surprise or get shocked easily. Even at the revelation of what many others would consider unthinkable, for example, empaths would have known the world was round when others believed it was flat.

-Well massage therapy is my new adventure, post policing dreams.

13. Creative: From singing, dancing, acting, drawing or writing an empath will have a strong creative streak and a vivid imagination.

– 🙂 🙂

14. Love of nature and animals: Being outdoors in nature is a must for empaths and pets are an essential part of their life.

– I do have a cat, it’s evil but I have it! I love my fish though, always have fish around, they are good luck I think.

15. Need for solitude: An empath will go stir-crazy if they don’t get quiet time. This is even obvious in empathic children.

OMG this is so me! I don’t ever get it unless i’m going to and from work or school. I’m pretty sure I have a child that will questioning all the same things that I have throughout my journey.

16. Gets bored or distracted easily if not stimulated: Work, school and home life has to be kept interesting for an empath or they switch off from it and end up daydreaming or doodling.

-Yes but I manage to figure it all out and I get through just fine.

17. Finds it impossible to do things they don’t enjoy: As above. Feels like they are living a lie by doing so. To force an empath to do something they dislike through guilt or labelling them as idle will only serve in making them unhappy. It’s for this reason many empaths get labelled as being lazy.

-or boring! I love that one…

18. Strives for the truth: This becomes more prevalent when an empath discovers his/her gifts and birthright. Anything untruthful feels plain wrong.

-yes this is where i’m at.

19. Always looking for the answers and knowledge: To have unanswered questions can be frustrating for an empath and they will endeavour to find an explanation. If they have a knowing about something they will look for confirmation. The downside to this is an information overload.


20. Likes adventure, freedom and travel: Empaths are free spirits.

-I think I fit in here… Sometimes

21. Abhors clutter: It makes an empath feel weighed down and blocks the flow of energy.

22. Loves to daydream: An empath can stare into space for hours, in a world of their own and blissfully happy.

23. Finds routine, rules or control, imprisoning: Anything that takes away their freedom is debilitating to an empath even poisoning.

24. Prone to carry weight without necessarily overeating: The excess weight is a form of protection to stop the negative incoming energies having as much impact.

25. Excellent listener: An empath won’t talk about themselves much unless it’s to someone they really trust. They love to learn and know about others and genuinely care.


26. Intolerance to narcissism: Although kind and often very tolerant of others, empaths do not like to be around overly egotistical people, who put themselves first and refuse to consider another’s feelings or points of view other than their own.

-HAHAHAHAHA This is such a true story!!!

27. The ability to feel the days of the week: An empath will get the ‘Friday Feeling’ if they work Fridays or not. They pick up on how the collective are feeling. The first couple of days of a long, bank holiday weekend (Easter for example) can feel, to them, like the world is smiling, calm and relaxed. Sunday evenings, Mondays and Tuesdays, of a working week, have a very heavy feeling.

-Yes here too

28. Will not choose to buy antiques, vintage or second-hand: Anything that’s been pre-owned carries the energy of the previous owner. An empath will even prefer to have a brand new car or house (if they are in the financial situation to do so) with no residual energy.

29. Sense the energy of food: Many empaths don’t like to eat meat or poultry because they can feel the vibrations of the animal (especially if the animal suffered), even if they like the taste.

30. Can appear moody, shy, aloof, disconnected: Depending on how an empath is feeling will depend on what face they show to the world. They can be prone to mood swings and if they’ve taken on too much negative will appear quiet and unsociable, even miserable. An empath detests having to pretend to be happy when they’re sad, this only adds to their load (makes working in the service industry, when it’s service with a smile, very challenging) and can make them feel like scuttling under a stone.

-As of lately I’ve been skirting my moods… Leaves me with a huge headache on the top of my head!

I think that you should definitely check out the Mind Unleashed


3 thoughts on “Empathy or torture?

  1. Namaste beloved Angel,I left the service industry cause I didn’t want to smile at fake people anymore who thought they were better than me cause I was serving them and i felt there energy and as a Seer I am able to look into anyone’s soul and really see there true colors, I love being a Empowered Empath,but here lately I have no desire to lay hands on anyone, I would rather do distance healing and I love doing and giving guidance that comes so easy for me when I am in nature, I feel more from the angels. .it just takes time and not being hard on yourself. Luv ya!!!!

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      • Start with transmute the negative fear based energy into pure positive love energy with the violet flame of st. Germaine. Or say this 33 time’s. .I’m a being of the violet fire I’m the puirty that God desire .and place yourself in a purple bubble, call upon archangel Michael with his sword of royal blue to cut your cords and his royal purple shield to protect you,and then call upon archangel Raphael to heal you with his green light of healing and his pink light of love.and you will bej ng tk feel better

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